Let me tell you something you already know . The world ain`t all sunshine and rainbows . Its a very mean and nasty place and it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it . You , me , or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life . But it ain`t about how hard you hit ; it`s about how hard you can get hit , and keep on moving forward . How much you can take , and keep on moving forward . That`s how the winning is done . Now , if you know what you`re worth, then go out and get what you`re worth . But you got to be willing to take the hit , and not be pointing fingers saying you ain`t where you are because of him , or her , or anybody . Cowards do that & that ain`t you . You`re better than that .